You are a living link to the past. Tell your grandchildren the story of the struggles waged, at home and abroad. Of sacrifices made for freedom's sake. And tell them your own story as well-- because everybody has a story to tell.
George H. W. Bush

Tuesday, July 7, 2020

Fleming Smith, A Revolutionary War Hero

Fleming Smith’s grave
Old Mulkey Meeting House Cemetery 
July 4, also known as Independence Day, is a day when we claimed our independence from England. Typically you will see family and friends around the US gather together to barbecue, shoot off fireworks and enjoy each other. This year, 2020, has been a little different with COVID 19 still running rampant, but we did manage to have a small party of family and a few close friends. This year was extra special as the week leading up to Independence Day I started the process of becoming a member of D.A.R., Daughters of the American Revolution, something I’m extremely proud to be a part of. My 5th great grandfather, Fleming Smith was a Private who enlisted while living in Spartanburg County, South Carolina.

Fleming was the son of Thomas Smith and Elizabeth Fleming, immigrants who were said to have met on the ship on their way to the United States. Thomas, a Baptist minister, and Elizabeth eventually married and thought to have had nine children including Fleming who was born in 1745 in Fairfax County, Virginia. Right before the War five of the brothers including Fleming moved from Bull Run, Virginia to Glenn’s Springs in Spartanburg County, South Carolina.

Around 1770 Fleming married 20 yr-old Prudence Bland, the daughter of John Bland Jr and Margaret Osborne in Prince William County, Virginia. Family History shows them having seven children including my 4th great grandfather James Smith.

  • Dorcas Smith b. 1771
  • John Smith b. 1773
  • James Smith b. 1777.  **My 4th Great Grandfather**
  • Margaret Smith b. 1782
  • Samuel Smith b. 1785
  • Malinda Smith b. 1786
  • Prudence Smith b. 1790
Their first two children were born in Prince William County, Virginia. They then moved to Spartanburg Co where the rest of the kids were born. 

It was while living in Spartanburg County that my 5th great grandfather Fleming Smith first enlisted in Oct 1780. He served as a Private for 3 months under Captains James and Thomas. Next he enlisted in Jan of  1781 for 3 months as a Private again under Captains James and Thomas along with General Pickins. It was then that he participated in the Battle of  Cowpens, an important battle which was a turning point for America in regaining South Carolina from the British. It went down as a win for the Americans. He also fought against the Tories at Bush River. After this he enlisted one last time in September of 1781 in Spartanburg County and served under Captain John Mass. This unit was attached to Elijah Clark’s regiment from Georgia.

In 1802 Fleming and his family moved to Cumberland County, Kentucky. An interesting note is that Abraham Lincoln’s father, Thomas Lincoln, served two terms as Constable of Cumberland County 1802-1804. My family has another connection to Abraham Lincoln which can be found in this blog post.

While living in Cumberland County Fleming continued to live in the same home. The county divided and the section he was living in became Monroe County. Prudence would pass away there in 1815 and Fleming eventually went to live with his daughter Dorcas. Fleming continued to receive his war pension til he passed away in 1847 at the age of 102. He is buried in the Old Mulkey Meeting House Cemetery. He had been a founding member of the Old Mulkey Meeting House in Tompkinsville, Kentucky.
Death Notice
1847
Fleming Smith - Prudence Bland
James Smith - Nancy Hughes
Fleming K Smith - Mary (Polly) Hoge
James Zachariah Smith - Sallie Oldham
Gardner Smith - Helen Morgan
Gene Turner - Melba Smith
Larry Immekus - Donna Turner
Henry Morgan - Me, Michelle Morgan

Tuesday, June 9, 2020

My great grandma Smith and the things that were handed down - week 24

Grandma & Grandpa Smith holding me when
I was 3 months old in 1972
  I’ve mentioned this before, I was extremely lucky to not only have grandparents that were quite involved in my life, but great grandparents as well. I’ve missed several SEVERAL weeks of the #52ancestors52weeks but I’ve been meaning to write this story and it fit perfectly for this weeks them which is “Handed Down”
  Helen Lora Morgan aka Grandma Smith was born to Mary Jane Anderson and E.P. ‘Ted’ Morgan in 1905. She was one of their 6 children born in Newton County, Mo and would live her entire life there. In 1923 she would marry Lewis ‘Garner’ Smith and have 3 girls— Mary Jewell, Louva Joyce, and my grandmother Melva Norene. 
  Grandma and Grandpa Smith were quite special to my mom and I remember visiting their house in Diamond, MO often. When Grandma found out I was marrying a farmer she seemed to be a little worried, especially when she heard we were digging potatoes. I think she remembered what life was like growing up on the farm. Times had changed and thankfully farm life is a little easier than what she remembered. They had purple phlox that grew along their retaining wall along their driveway and when they were in bloom it was beautiful. We would go pick strawberries in their garden and grandpa
Smith would show us his victrola he had in the garage. One of my biggest memories though was her snacks. She would always give you a can of Dr Pepper from her refrigerator and a straw, and then bring out a tin out of the freezer with her famous chocolate chip cookies. They were an absolute favorite of mine!! After she passed away in 1992 we realized that no one had her recipe. We searched everywhere and it couldn’t be found. We even tried different recipes thinking we might get it. My sister had one that was close, but it just seemed to be missing something. About 5-6 months ago I was searching for another relatives recipe and I thought about Grandma Smith. I had a church cookbook from the church she attended that had been given to me as a bridal shower gift. I searched the cookbook and to my surprise and delight I found her recipe. It even said ‘Grandma Helen Smith’ below it. Here I had had this recipe for 28 yrs and didn’t even realize it. This recipe will definitely be
handed on down!! You 
  When my grandparents died they had a sale and I bought a doll quilt. I never remembered seeing it at their house, but thought it was cute and in good shape. Quilts also mean a lot to me. I’ve always
Hazel Grace loves playing with the blanket that was
made for her Mema by Grandma Smith all those years ago
had it sitting out but I don’t think my mom noticed it til about a year ago. To my delight she told me that one Christmas grandpa Smith made them a doll bed and grandma Smith made them a quilt to go with it. She didn’t know what happened to the bed, but this was the quilt. The colors are so bright and vivid that my grandmother must have put it away. My own granddaughter is almost 2. This quilt is a favorite of hers. She loves to wrap her baby up in it and put it to sleep. It was made by her 3rd Great Grandmother and given to her great grandmother and now handed down to her. Grandma Smith passed in 1992, just several months after we were married, but her love continues to keeps on giving!

Thursday, May 28, 2020

The two I honor on Memorial Day

This week was Memorial Day here in America. What once started out as a day in honoring those who had lost their life in war has become more of a Kick-Off to summer event. Traditionally people visit and decorate the graves of loved ones while typically volunteers will set out flags on each soldier’s grave in national cemeteries. At our own rural cemetery flags are set out along the road.

The custom of honoring your ancestors by cleaning and decorating their graves is actually an ancient tradition, but the origins of Memorial Day, or Decoration Day as it was originally known as, is not known. In the United States in the years before the Civil War this would typically take place towards the end of summer and families would often have reunions or at least picnics. After the Civil War America needed a patriotic event to help honor those who died while fighting for what they believed in.

Since starting my genealogy search I have found two great grandfathers who died during the Civil War. Both passing at young ages leaving widows and several children.

Jacob H Reber was my 4X great grandfather. He was born in 1835 in Pennsylvania and married Elizabeth Huff around 1854-1855. They would go on to have 5 children together.

  • Zacharias Reber - 1855
  • Edward Reber (my 3X great grandfather) - 1857
  • Charles Reber - 1859
  • Agness Reber - 1860
  • Alice Reber - 1861
At the age of 26 Jacob mustered in the L1 Pennsylvania Cal on July 30, 1861. He died in the hospital in Aug of 1864 and is buried in Poplar Grove National Cemetery, Dinwiddie Co, VA. 
In 1870 census I found his 4 oldest children in Chester Springs Soldier’s Orphanage School. These schools were opened up around the state for the children of soldiers who had died, or who had been so badly injured they wouldn’t be able to support their families. This particular school was 45 miles away from where Elizabeth lived. Alice appeared to have not went and I believe she might have barely been to young to go at the time. 

I do want to note that Elizabeth had a child Fred Reber in 1871. On all documentation that is found the father is listed as Jacob Reber even though he had died in 1864.

Jacob Reber - Elizabeth Huff
Edward Reber - LaAnda Boman
Susie Reber - Henry Harrison Strong
Dora Strong - Clebert Turner
Gene Turner - Melva Smith
Donna Turner - Larry Immekus
Me

Jonathan N Phillips was my 3X great grandfather. Jonathan was born in 1827 to Nathan and Hannah Phillips in Tennessee. He married Ms. Susannah “Ann” Smith on Christmas Day of 1850 in Franklin Co Missouri. They would have 3 children...
  • Nathan Henry Phillips 1852
  • Jesse B Phillips 1857
  • Emma Thankful Phillips 1862 (my 2X great grandmother)
Jonathan mustered in with the 26th Missouri VOL infantry at Pacific, Mo in December of 1861. He would die of disease in camp of May 1862 and is buried in Shiloh National Cemetery. Susannah had an interesting story and you can read more about her here.

Jonathan Phillips - Susannah Smith
Emma Phillips - George Reed
Lucy Reed - Frank Immekus
Leo Immekus - Laura Faye “Sally” Clary
Larry Immekus - Donna Turner
Me

Sunday, April 19, 2020

My niece, Haidyn Immekus Lee

At this time seventeen years ago I was eagerly awaiting for my niece to be born. My sister Julie who lives in Carthage, MO was past her due date and was heading to the hospital in Joplin, MO due to having contractions. Julie was (and still is) the kind of aunt everyone wants. She’s fun, loving, a confidant, always there whenever you need here, etc. Her home was literally my kids 2nd home some summers. I couldn’t wait to finally get the chance to be that kind of aunt to her child, to make all those wonderful memories. I couldn’t wait to see what she looked like. Would she have red hair like my girls, or would she favor her father who had brown hair and brown eyes. My kids at the time were so excited. Allie was almost 10, Trent almost 8, and Kelsie was a week from turning 3. My sister and I just knew Kels and her would be the best of friends. I had thrown her a baby shower as well as helped her paint and decorate her room. I even wrote a special note to Haidyn above her door so she would always know how much aunt Shell loved her. That night the hospital sent her back home, said it wasn’t time yet.

The next morning, April 20, 2003, was Easter morning. We were getting around to go to church when my ex brother in-law called. Miss Haidyn Immekus Lee had made her appearance. I was beyond thrilled!!! He said she was having a little trouble breathing and had been taken to the NICU but everything was ok. Knowing the kids wouldn’t be allowed to see my sister or Haidyn so I decided to send them with my in-laws to church. I called my Nannie to see if she wanted us to pick her and my Papa up and take them to the hospital with us. My Nannie was quite upset and I figured it was because Haidyn was sent to the NICU. She then says “I can’t believe we lost her” I was shocked and asked her what exactly she meant. She was the one that told me that Haidyn had passed away. I literally fell to my knees and started sobbing. I was in absolute shock. I had the kids run to get Henry who was out doing chores so we could get down there. My parents hadn’t called me because they I was driving and didn’t want me to get the news then. We got down there and I was able to hold my beautiful niece for several minutes and yes, she had a tinge of red hair. My heart was broken. It was as if I had lost my own child so I couldn’t begin to imagine the pain my sister felt. It was later discovered that they should have never sent my sister home the night before. By the time she got to the hospital the next day Haidyn was in distress. My sister had an emergency c-section and Haidyn had swallowed some meconium. When the dr’s were trying to get it out they ended up tearing her lung. She was only with us a few short hours.

The next several days were a blur. As so many people have said, no one should ever have to bury their child. When we went to see her at the funeral home Trent said she looked like a porcelain doll, and she did. A beautiful doll. Poor Kelsie just didn’t understand. She wanted to hold ‘baby Haven’ as she always called her. For months afterwards I would find Kelsie playing, for instance rocking a pretend baby and when I asked her what she was doing she would look at me and just give me that matter of fact look and say “Rocking Baby Haven.” The graveside service held in Carthage, MO was a nice one. I had wrote a letter to her, but didn’t feel like I would be able to read it so my brother was nice enough to do it for me. The last line of my letter, and what was put on her stone is .... I will hold you in my heart til I can hold you in my arms once again.

Some may wonder why I chose to write about her on my genealogy blog and it’s simple. Haidyn might have only been in our life for a few hours, but she will always be a part of our family and I want future generations to know about her, to know how much she was loved, how much it hurt to lose her, and how we will never forget her. I look forward to seeing her again and know she’s up there playing with papa Larry, Nannie and Papa, as well as a host of others.

I will end this with the lyrics of the song “I Believe” by Diamond Rio. Julie and her ex were trying to figure out what song to play and one night on the way home from the hospital I saw a falling star and heard this song. I instantly knew it was the one.

Haidyn, Baby Haven, Haidy, Daisy, never forget how much you are loved and know we look forward to seeing you again!!  Love Aunt Shell

Every now and then,
Soft as breath upon my skin,
I feel you come back again,
And it's like you haven't been,
Gone a moment from my side
Like the tears were never cried
Like the hands of time are holding you and me
And with all my heart I'm sure,
We're closer than we ever were
I don't have to hear or see,
I've got all the proof I need
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe
Oh, I believe
Now when you die your life goes on
It doesn't end here when you're gone
Every soul is filled with light,
It never ends and if I'm right,
Our love can even reach across eternity
I believe
Oh, I believe
Forever, you're a part of me
Forever, in the heart of me
I will hold you even longer if I can
Oh, the people who don't see the most,
Say that I believe in ghosts
If that makes me crazy, then I am,
'Cause I believe
Oh I believe
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe
Oh, I believe
Every now and then,
Soft as breath upon my skin,
I feel you come back again,
And I believe

Friday, March 27, 2020

Spotlight #6 Alice (Cole) Morgan

Life at the moment is like nothing I’ve ever experienced before. I hate to say that I was one of those people who three weeks ago thought this Covid-19 pandemic was being greatly exaggerated. When I started seeing empty shelves in grocery stores, and people scrambling over toilet paper I rolled my eyes and was thankful I lived in rural SW Missouri away from big cities where things like that were happening. Then I walked into my local Walmart and was shocked to find that it was even happening here in our part of the world. I’m blessed that we have a freezer full of meat so I know we will always be ok, but was saddened to see that they were out of so many things. Then I found out our former superintendent had tested positive for it and passed away a few days later. Suddenly things seemed to get a little more real. His wife’s Facebook post were gut wrenching. Today I am taking it more seriously as I’ve seen how quickly it can affect even healthy people. My family (who is growing by 2 more this summer) means a lot to me and I want to take care of myself the best I can.

Joseph & Alice (Cole) Morgan
March is winding down but I’m hoping to get in a few more spotlights. March’s #6 spotlight is my 3rd great Aunt, Alice (Cole) Morgan. She was married to Joseph Morgan, the brother of my great great grandfather EP “Ted” Morgan. As our pandemic has been growing I started looking into relatives who might have passed during the huge Spanish Flu epidemic in 1918, but did surge again in 1919. While scouring newspapers it was sad seeing the the number of families it affected. Joseph and Alice were one of those families.

Alice was born in October, 1873, the 3rd of 8 children born to David and Flora Cole. Her father was born in Indiana, but he came to Missouri as a young man and settled in SW Missouri. He did a brief stint in the Civil War with the Iowa Infantry Regiment K, but from the 1860 census on he is found in Lawrence and Newton County, Missouri. He was primarily a farmer (stated on all census), but it’s been also noted that he was one of the pioneer preachers in SW Missouri.

Alice married Joseph Morgan on Nov 7, 1897 in Newton Co, Missouri. She was 24 yrs of age and Joseph was 25. Joseph was the son of  Edward Payson Morgan and Margaret (Stinson) Morgan (my 3rd great Grandparents) and was the oldest of 5 children. Searching thru census information is always fun because so many times I see several different family ancestors on the same page. Both sides of my maternal grandparent’s family are pioneer families in Newton, Barry, and Jasper Counties. In 1900 Joseph is down as a blacksmith. In those 1st 3 yrs of marriage they’ve had their first 2 children, a son Ray in 1899 and a daughter Ruth in 1900 who was 3 months old at the time the census was taken. By the 1910 census Joseph has his own store and Alice is down as a clerk. Ray is 11 is down as a farm laborer at their farm. Ruth is 10 and they’ve had 2 more sons Robert 7 and Larry 3. The next several years would see them have several more children Dorothy who was born in 1911 and their baby George born in 1917.
Standing-Glen, Bob, Ray, & Ruth
Seated-Alice, Dorothy, & Joseph holding George
1918

In 1918 the country was in the grips of a Spanish Flu epidemic and unfortunately it would hit Joseph and Alice’s family as little George came down with the flu. His death certificate stated he was seen by a dr from July 20- July 25 when he passed away at home. He had just turned a year old. The picture I have must have been taken shortly before George passed and shows all their children. I’m sure this was a huge loss not only to Alice and Joseph, but to George’s siblings as well.

The 1920 shows the Joseph is now solely farming. The year 1926 was a tough year not only on Joseph and Alice, but on the entire Morgan Family. In January, Alice and Joseph’s  youngest daughter Dorothy who was 14 yrs old came down with influenza. She was thought to be getting better when suddenly she passed. The death was hard on not only the family, but the community as well as she was a member of several  groups such as 4H, an organization my own family is quite involved in. I’ve always heard death comes in 3 and that seemed to be true for the Morgan family. Less than two weeks later Dorothy’s cousin Arthur Anderson who was 26 yrs old and lived close by, accidentally killed himself while grabbing his gun as he was getting into the hog pen. His family had been butchering hogs that day. His death is thought to be almost instantaneous. Arthur’s mother Lucy was Joseph’s (and my great great grandfather EP “Ted” Morgan) sister.  That September Arthur’s married sister, Millie Smith (who was married to my great grandfather Garner Smith’s brother Ray) passed away after a battle with tuberculosis. All of these families lived in the same community, some like Joseph their entire life. His obituary stated that he was born on a farm near Granby, Missouri and lived his entire life within a 1/2 mile radius of that farm. I think of my own family and how tough it was to lose my niece Haidyn that passed away after living only a few short hours.  I can’t imagine had I also lost not one but 2 children that same year. How tough that would be on our entire family. The grief the Morgan Family endured must have been overwhelming. I spotlighted Alice to tie in to what was going on in the country today, but Lucy also lost 2 children and it was in the same year leaving her with only one living child. Were they good friends as well as family?? Lucy’s own husband passed in 1905 and Census show that she never did remarry so she didn’t have a partner to lean on during those tough times. Hopefully they were a good support system for each other along with the rest of the family who lived around them and their church family.

There is no doubt that life was tougher 100 yrs ago, much more so than today. As I said before, there weren’t any therapist and I know just from doing genealogy that a lot of times things like this weren’t even discussed. I hope that Alice and Lucy at least had that one person they could talk to, someone to share their sadness with so that sadness didn’t turn into bitterness. It would be hard to go thru life with that black cloud continually overhead, but keeping those kind of emotions buried could possibly do just that. Both women lived around the Pepsin Community their entire married lives. Alice’s obit said she had lived in the area for 52 years, moving there from Carthage. Lucy lived around their her entire life, marrying a local boy Harry Anderson. Both are buried in the Powers Cemetery in Newton Co, Missouri.

The following pieces were in the Neosho Daily News from 1926. Sadly I could find nothing on the death of George at all. 

** Side Note ... Lucy and her brother EP “Ted” married siblings Mary Jane & Harry Anderson
** 2nd side Note ... Lucy and EP’s Sister Helen Florence married Alice’s brother William. 


Sunday, March 22, 2020

Spotlight #5 - Maude “LuLu” (Pfander) Budd

Claude Budd & Maude “LuLu” Pfander


I’m continuing my spotlight on women this March for Women’s History month. This blog post I’ve decided to spotlight Maude “LuLu” (Pfander) Budd, my husband Henry’s great grandmother. I remember seeing her in her wedding picture the first time and thinking they made such a striking couple and that she was absolutely beautiful.

Maude “LuLu” Pfander was born in November of 1888 to William E Pfander and Orelia (Evans)Pfander. I’m assuming she was born in either Jasper or Barton county as that’s where the extended family lived, but I don’t know that for a fact. She was the 4th of 5 kids and the only girl. I have to wonder if her brothers were the over protective type or if maybe she was a bit spoiled being the only girl.
LuLu Pfander as a child 

LuLu married Claude C Budd in 1916. The paper said they married at the parsonage in the Nashville community, Barton Co Missouri, in front of a large crowd. They would settle down and live in the Blue community, Barton Co, MO. The 1920 census showed them living in a household with Claude’s mother Mary, and his 2 siblings Phillip and Violet. Claude was shown as being a farmer, a profession he would have the rest of his life.

June 1917 would see the couple welcome their first child, a girl named Lena Avis. Unfortunately she would pass away approximately 5 weeks later in August. I know 100 years ago it was more common to lose a child, but I’m sure it wasn’t any easier on the the parents. I’m sure the grief would be overwhelming at times and there would be no support systems in place like there is today.

In 1918 they were blessed with another daughter, Edith Budd, my husband Henry’s grandmother. They would go on to have to have 2 more sons, Claude “Melvin” in1925, and Merle Rex in 1928. Merle’s nickname was “Buck” and he was born on Nov 25, 1928. Unfortunately shortly after his birth LuLu came down influenza which happened to be going around. Three days after Christmas on Dec 28 LuLu passed away. Her death left Claude a widow with 3 small children including one a so that was barely a month old. An obit from the Lamar, MO paper said:
:

SAD DEATH OF YOUNG MOTHER -----

Mrs. Claude Budd, who with her husband lived in the south part of Northfork township, just across the road from the Blue Schoolhouse, died at 9 o'clock, Friday evening. She contracted the flu, which developed into a fatal case of pneumonia. Mrs. Budd's death in most tragic and heart-breaking. She leaves her young husband with a tiny babe, five weeks old, and with two other little children, four and six years old.
Lamar Democrat, 3 Jan 1929

In a news clipping from around 2 weeks later said he had moved in with his mother though she was quite old being almost 80 yrs old. My husband’s grandmother Edith was 10 yrs old at the time and believe a lot of responsibility was put on her shoulders at a young age. It would be tough on a child to lose their mom at a young age. Having adult type responsibilities like taking care of your siblings would make it even tougher to grieve for your mother.
Obit from Jasper paper


Maude “LuLu” Pfander m Claude Budd
Edith Budd m Ray Arnold
Linda Arnold m Richard Morgan
Henry Morgan m Michelle Immekus (me)

Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Spotlight #4 Susanna (Smith) Phillips

Susannah (Smith) Phillips
1822-1893
I haven’t had the time to spotlight as many women as I had hoped this month, but I still have several more days.

My Spotlight #4 is my 3rd great grandmother on my father’s side. Susannah (Smith) Phillips. She has quite a story that happened to her during the civil war. Susannah was born in about 1822, the daughter of Thomas Smith and Nancy Williamson. I don’t know a lot about her early life. She would marry my 3rd great grandfather Jonathan Phillips on Christmas Day - Dec 25, 1850 in Franklin County, Missouri. Jonathan was born in 1827 in Tennessee to Nathan Phillips and Hannah Leeks.

Jonathan and Susanna (aka Anna) settled down around St Clair, Missouri around the Anaconda area on the Meramac River. The census and war roster that I’ve found said that Jonathan was a farmer. They started a family and in 1852 Nathan Henry Phillips was born, then Jesse B Phillips in 1857, and finally my great great grandmother Emma Thankful Phillips in 1862. When Susannah was around 6 months pregnant with Emma, Jonathan joined the Union army. He mustered in on December 17, 1861 at Camp Herron in Pacific Missouri with the 26th MO Vol infantry. This would be the last time Susannah would see her husband. He would die on May 21, 1862, just a few months after Emma was born. He passed in the hospital in Farmington, MS and is buried in Shiloh National Cemetery.
Jonathan Phillips
1827-1862
Buried in Shiloh National Cemetery 

I’ve read several accounts of the story I’m about to tell but the ending is always the same. The year is fall 1864 and Susannah was a widow with 3 small children. The Civil War had already taken her husband and Missouri was a very volatile area. Emma, my great great grandmother was only 2 yrs old at the time, but she had heard this story many many times thru out her life. Her mother Susannah had left the children at home with relative while she went to visit her brother John Smith who lived around 5 miles away. It was at this time that the Confederate Army would invade Franklin County in the famous Price’s Raid led by General Sterling Price. While visiting her brother the soldiers surrounded the house. John saw the soldiers coming and fled the house to the backside of his property. He watched as the soldier slaughtered his fattest livestock, stole his horses, and torched his hay, oats, and wheat. John knew he could do nothing about the pillaging and would cross the river to find a safer place with his mother in-law. Some might think of John as being a coward, but he knew they would either kill him or force him to join the confederate army. Typically the soldiers would leave the women and children alone.

Susannah was getting quite worried about her own children at home, but her and John’s wife were being held captive. They ordered the women to fix them something to eat. She was concerned as she looked out the window and saw the soldiers removing her side saddle. She had tears in her eyes as she had a nursing baby at home and without her horse it the 5 mile trip would take quite a bit of time. She went out to plead with them to leave the horse be. The captain of the group showed up at this point and ordered the men to leave the horse alone and put the side saddle back on. The side saddle was a sign that the horse belonged to a woman and they knew that they NEVER robbed or stole from a lady. While her horse was left alone, she did have to watch them ransack the house. They stole anything that was edible like chickens, eggs, vegetables, etc. They also found Susannah’s one picture she had of Jonathan where he was dressed in his Union uniform. I’ve often wondered how they found it as I’m sure she had the picture in a pocket or someplace else on her. Once the soldiers found the picture they took and burned it so my great great grandmother was never knew what her father looked like since he never came home from the war. Some of the soldiers bedded down for the night at the Smith place while others spread out thru the neighborhood. Fortunately they never invaded the home so Susannah was able to mount up and head home.

I cannot imagine how frightened she must have been, yet knew she must be strong so she could get home to her young children. I’ve not found much more about the rest of her life. In the 1880 census it says she was keeping house and I do know she was getting a widows pension from losing Jonathan.
She would pass away in Nov of 1893 at the age of 71 and is buried at the Anaconda Cemetery in St Clair, Missouri. From what I have researched she never did remarry.

Susannah (Smith) Phillips m Jonathan Phillips
Emma T (Phillips) Reed m George Reed
Lucy (Reed) Immekus m Francis “Frank” Immekus
Leo Immekus m Laura Faye “Sally” Clary
Larry Immekus m Donna Turner
Michelle (Immekus) Morgan m Henry Morgan





Friday, March 13, 2020

Strong Woman Spotlight #3 Lucinda (Evans) Morgan

Lucinda (Evans) Morgan is the woman I’ve chosen for Strong Woman Spotlight #3. I don’t have a lot of concrete info for her, most is speculation, but I’m in hopes by getting her story out there I might be able to learn more.

Lucinda (Evans) Morgan was my husband Henry’s 2X great grandmother. She was born to Harvey Evans (spelled Ivens in some census) and Rachel Trimble in June 1837, the 2nd of 11 children and the oldest daughter. Here is what I know about her siblings

  • Wesley Evans 1835 — he has a infant child buried in Killy cemetery in the family spot in Barton County Mo but that’s all I know.
  • Lucinda
  • Louisa Evans 1841-1941 married Benjamin Miller and buried in Killy Cemetery 
  • George Evans 1843 married Mary Abbott last found in 1920 census in Oklahoma 
  • Etta Evans 1845-1892 married a DePew and buried in Killy
  • Martha Jane Evans 1847 married George Roberts last found in Colorado in 1910
  • Allen Edwards Evans 1850-1921 married Catherine Trout buried in Oregon
  •  Sarah A Evans 1854 m John Buzzard buried in Oakton Cemetery in Barton County MO
  • Zeruia Adelaide “Dade” Evans 1857-1932 married Lewis Trout buried in Killy Cemetery 
  • Silas Sherman Evans 1858 married Rebecca Eckles last found in Crawford Co KS in 1920
  • Nancy Evans 1861-1887
Lucinda Evans & William Morgan
Wedding license
Nov 4 1860
On Oct 16 of 1860 Lucinda Ann Evans would marry William Washington Morgan in Andrew County MIssouri. She was 21 years old at the time and William was around 23. They must have immediately left because on Nov 4, 1860 they had their first child Nancy Ella Morgan in Wright County Iowa, meaning she traveled in I assume a covered wagon approximately 240 miles in her last weeks of pregnancy. I don’t know what brought them to Iowa in such a hurry, but one theory would be all the unrest that was going on before the Civil War. Andrew County was on the Kansas/Missouri line which was a very volatile area at that time. I also have to wonder if William was truly the father of her child. I would have thought they would have married earlier than roughly a month before she was due. Maybe she had been married before, though in the 1860 census that was taken in July she is shown living in her father’s house with the last name Evans. In that same census there is a W. W. Evans shown living in the same home and is a farm laborer. Is that her brother Wesley or is it William Washington ??? The age fits both. I will say that Nancy’s (that first child) gravestone shows her birthdate as 1861 but her death certificate lists it as 1860 as do all the census, not to mention that they had another child born in 1861. Their first 3 children were born in Wright Co Iowa and the rest in Missouri.


  1. Nancy Ella Morgan 1860 - Iowa
  2. William Harvey Morgan 1861 - Iowa
  3. George Sherman Morgan 1864 - Iowa — My husband’s great grandfather
  4. James H Morgan 1866 - Missouri
  5. Danial David Morgan 1868 - Missouri
  6. Charles A Morgan 1870 - Missouri
  7. Ettie 1871 - Missouri
I’m guessing at the close of the war they moved back to Missouri. The 1870 census shows them in Dade County Missouri which is in SW Missouri. William is shown as a farm laborer and 3 of his brothers are living with them. Lucinda’s family is shown living one county over in Barton County which is where they pretty well stayed the rest of their life.

For the longest time I could find nothing else on Lucinda. I didn’t know when or where she died and no clue where she was buried. I finally figured out she must have passed sometime after 1871-1880 because I never found her on any census. I then found an obituary of William’s that spoke of her and saw where he remarried, but no dates of when Lucinda died or even when he remarried. I was getting quite discouraged and was saddened by her short life. Then one day this past summer I was walking Killy Cemetery which isn’t far from my home. It’s an older rural cemetery and I was taking pictures of gravestones to upload. I knew Lucinda’s parents were buried there as well as some other family members just from Find a Grave but as I was walking along that day I got a huge surprise when I came upon her gravestone. Finally I found her resting place, and while so many find this strange it gave me a sense of peace. I still don’t know much of her story. I don’t have a death certificate and probably won’t since she died in 1874, and I’ve never been able to find any kind of obit or death notice, but at least I found one piece of the puzzle!!

Lucinda Evans & William W Morgan
George Sherman Morgan & Lizzie Mitchell
Freddie Arthur “Art” Morgan & Rosa Alice Pugh
Richard Morgan & Linda Arnold
Henry Morgan & I


Sunday, March 8, 2020

Week 10 - A Strong Woman & spotlight #2 Dora (Strong) Turner Greer

Dora Strong & Clebert Turner
Wedding Day
1925
The theme for week 10 of 52 ancestors in 52 weeks was a “Strong Woman.”  My great grandmother and spotlight #2 was just that, a strong woman! Dora Strong that is! My great grandma saw a lot of sadness in her life that might make some women bitter or depressed. By all accounts though she was a loving woman who was a caregiver to both her family and the community.

Dora Strong was born Dec 5. 1905 to Susie (Reber) Strong & Henry H Strong Jr. She was their 3rd child and oldest daughter. Their children were:
  • Leland Oliver 1902
  • Emit 1903
  • Dora (my great grandmother) 1905
  • Gertie 1908
  • David 1911
  • Velma 1912
  • Hubert 1915
  • Naomi 1917
  • Henry Harold “Pete” 1920
  • Margaret 1922
When she was around 6 yrs old her older brother Leland Oliver would pass away when he was around 10 yrs old from dysentery. Two years later her other older brother Emet would pass away when he was approximately 10 yrs old. His death certificate number indicates he died from a disease of the bones and says a contributing factor was poor health. I would think that losing 2 siblings by the time you were around 8 yrs old would be tough on any child. 

On Aug 16 of 1925 she would marry Clebert Turner in Sarcoxie Missouri. They would make their home near the Ritchey vicinity. In Oct 1926 they became parents of a baby boy named Clebert Eldon. Unfortunately he passed four days later. In 1928 their first daughter arrived Geraldean (Geri), followed the next year in 1929 with my grandfather Henry Eugene, and 1933 with son Gilbert Lee. In 1935 Gilbert, who was a month from being 2, came down with pneumonia and pass away within a week. My grandfather who was between 5-6 at the time of his brother’s death told me he could remember them laying his brother out in the parlor after his passing, before his burial and that after everyone went to sleep he would sneak back in and give his baby brother a final kiss goodby. To hear that from my grown grandfather about brought me to tears. In April 1937 Clebert and Dora would welcome their youngest daughter Barbara Jo. Sometime at the end of 1937 Clebert came down with Tuberculosis. In a Jan 27, 1938 bit in the Neosho MO paper it says they were getting rid of all their personal belongings and moving to Arizona in hopes that Clebert’s health would improve. Unfortunately, by the beginning of May they were back in Missouri with Dora and Clebert coming by rail and Clebert’s brother Carl bringing back the kids by automobile. Clebert would pass on May 16, 1938 at the age of 33 leaving my great grandmother a widow with 3 young children. She had already lost 2 children and now her husband. 

Dora & Roy Greer Wedding Pic
Dora, or Grandma Greer as I always knew her as, was blessed to live a long life. She would go on to marry a widower by the name of Roy Greer who lived across the road several years later and they enjoyed a long married life.  I’ve heard from several family members that she was a wonderful caregiver. I know that her parents were both living with her when they passed and just recently heard that she delivered her twin nephews when their dad went to get the dr but didn’t make it back because of snow. When you hear people describe her you will hear the adjectives kind, sweet, and strong in her faith. I would add patient as my grandpa was probably one of the most ornery people I know, and it sounds like he was pretty much that way his whole life. I was lucky to have her in my life for 23 yrs and wish I had taken the time to get to know her better. I’ve appreciated the family though that’s been kind enough to share all the family history.

Dora Strong (1905-1998) m. Clebert Turner (1904-1938)
Henry Eugene “Gene” Turner (1929-2011) m Melva Smith (1929-2011)
Donna Turner (1951- ) m Larry Immekus (1949-2015)
Me
Grandma Greer & I on my wedding day
Jan 24, 1992





Friday, March 6, 2020

Woman Spotlight #1 Laura Faye (Clary) Immekus aka Sally/SalSal

Laura (Clary) Immekus
“Sally”
March is traditionally Women’s History month and I would like to take this time to focus on different women in either Henry or I’s family. So often it seems we focus on a whole family or the father of the family, but this month I would like to take a closer look at all the moms, grandma’s, aunt’s and daughter’s out there who have made us who we are today. There might be some that I don’t know a lot about, but just getting their name out there might help someone else who is researching a family. Other women I will have more info on. I had hoped to do one a day, but as you can see it’s March 5 and this is my first one. Hopefully thru out the month I can get to several.

The first special lady I’m spotlighting is my paternal grandmother Laura Faye Clary. Laura was born June 18, 1925 in Fredonia, KS. She was the 5th of 6 children born to David Oly Clary and Phoebe (Hobert) Clary. When Laura was 11 yrs old her mother would pass away from cancer at the age of 46. The next year her dad would remarry a lady named Nettie, but he would eventually pass away a few years later when Laura was 15. She would go on to live with her older sister Christina and husband Clarence. While working in the kitchen of Crowder Camp in Neosho, MO she met a skinny guy she use to call pinto. That young man was a guy by the name of Leo Robert Immekus. She and Leo would eventually marry on Aug 4, 1945 in Cherokee Co, Kansas. My grandpa Leo served as a medic during WW II. When he came home they settled in Joplin, MO and started a family, raising 5 children—Anna, Larry, Linda, Bruce, and Marty. You could say she also hand a hand at raising several of the 12 grandchildren she had as well as she babysat several of us at different times while our parents worked.

My grandma was known as Sally, or SalSal to us grandkids, a name my aunt Linda Hostler said was given to her by her best friend. She said grandma’s friend just said she “looked like a Sally” so Sally it was. My oldest cousin TD had trouble saying Sally, so he’s the one who started SalSal and it just stuck. SalSal always had a smile on her face, a big boisterous laugh, and a love for rummage sales. I’ve asked my cousin Jacque Smith to be a guest writer as I felt like she would do a great job of showing people just what a wonderful lady SalSal was and keeping her memory alive for future generations and I was right. The following is what she had to say about our SalSal......

Laura Faye Immekus was my maternal grandmother.  Her laughter was larger than life.  It could fill a room.  A house.  I’m sure her laugh could be heard around the world sometimes.  As a child, I loved her and enjoyed spending summer weekends at her and grandpa’s little house on the “farm”.  They had a mutt dog named Ubu that my sister and I would chase around the house.  Grandma made the best burgers on the grill, super peppery, which I learned to love.  Thinking back, her kitchen was a really ugly bright orange, but at the time it just felt warm and inviting.  She always bought the variety pack of little boxes of cereal and I’m pretty sure she lost some money when my sister was there (a serious “cereal killer”) ðŸ˜Š.  After my grandpa passed away, my mom and sister and I would go visit grandma one evening each week.  We girls would take homework that we needed to complete while Mom and Grandma would visit, and Mom would help Grandma with anything she might need.  By then, at the age of 13, I was much too mature to be outside playing with the dogs.

My Grandma decided to move on into town a short time later and our weekly visits ceased.  I began living my own life as a teen and had no need for time with my grandmother.    But then, at 19, I became a mother and suddenly needed a sitter for my son, as I worked full-time at a local law firm.  Two amazing, selfless ladies offered to care for him while I worked:  my Mom and my Grandma Sally.  They loved him and took great care of him.

When I finally quit working, I showed up at Grandma’s during my lunch hour.  Days Of Our Lives was on.  Grandma wondered why I was there.  During the commercial break, I began telling her the story of why I quit my job.  When the show came back on, we paused our discussion and watched intently.  At the next commercial break, we resumed conversation.  That is one of my favorite memories with her.

Over the next several years we would go out to lunch together, I’d drop in with my kids to visit, she’d come by my house to visit, and then she’d call me.  During America’s Funniest Videos, she’d call, cackling, and ask if I had the TV on and if I’d just seen the cat fall off the table, or the bride’s hair go up in flames.  We wouldn’t hang up throughout the episode, but just laugh into our phones and occasionally question if people had permanent scars or disabilities from the things they incurred.

Grandma loved garage sales.  She had a bumper sticker on her little old tan station wagon that stated, “This car stops at all yard sales.”  She loved can spray cheese and Ritz crackers and kept a supply on the table behind her recliner.  She ALWAYS had at least one box of Little Debbie Swiss Cake Rolls in her kitchen.  She had tons of kids’ movies and enjoyed watching them with my kids when we went to visit.  She had a short, fat dog named Susie that my kids loved, and then she got a tiny little white dog named Molly.  She loved children and babysat more kids after I began my new life as a stay-at-home mom.   One little girl would constantly be reprimanded, “Put that dog down, McKenna!!”

Grandma was always joyful, though she wasn’t necessarily always happy.  She dealt with pain in life, as we all do.  When people hurt her or those she loved, however, she didn’t hold a grudge.  She didn’t seek revenge.  She knew The Lord and left that in His perfect, capable hands.

One of my uncles used to call me Little Laura Faye.  I greatly miss hearing that.  But I miss that precious woman so much more.  So very much more.

Sally & Leo Immekus
Anna, Larry, and baby Linda

My grandpa Leo passed in 1990. SalSal would move back to town and live another 13 yrs, passing in 2003. Both are buried in Hornet Cemetery in Newton County Missouri.


Thursday, February 27, 2020

Emeline Trimble & the Utter Massacre on the Oregon Trail - Week 9 Disaster


The theme for week 9 of #52ancestors52weeks was “Disaster” and while Henry and I both had ancestors who suffered great tragedies in their life, there was none more so than Emeline Trimble.  

I had been researching Henry’s 2X Great Grandparents William Washington Morgan and Lucinda (Evans) Morgan for awhile. Lucinda died rather young and I really wasn’t finding much about her.  Often times, in cases like this, I start looking deeper into the parents and siblings in hopes I can find clues thru them. I did know Lucinda’s parent’s names were Harvey Evans & Rachel (Trimble) Evans. That’s when I stumbled upon Emeline’s story. Emeline’s father Hiram and Lucinda’s mother Rachel were siblings. Her story begins in 1860, which coincidentally is the year William and Lucinda got married. The following is an actual account wrote in Emeline’s own words when she was an adult. It’s long but definitely worth the read!!


Massacred By The Indians
The Terrible Experience of a Columbia County Girl


To the Editor of the Columbus Republican: 
As I have frequently been importuned by my many friends and acquaintances in Columbia County for my history, I will briefly give you an account in my poor way, of the journey across the plains in the year 1860, hoping that you will be kind enough to publish the same. 
Among the first settlers of Columbia County were my grand-father and grandmother Payne, who settled in the town of Marcellon with their family, of whom my mother was the youngest child. Their sons, Aaron and George Payne, still live in the town of Scott, Columbia County. My mother married my father, whose name was Trimble, and lived in the town of Marcellon for a number of years, when he died, leaving three children, of whom I was the oldest. Next was a brother, Christopher, and then a sister, Libbie. 
My mother lived a widow for a few years and then married Elijah Utter, of Walworth County, a blacksmith by occupation, and a large-hearted, honest man, who proved a good husband to mother, and good father to us children. He had three sons and three daughters, making in all eleven in the family. The next year, a baby daughter was born to them, making twelve in the family. 
My father and mother often talked of going to the far west to make themselves a home, and settle their numerous family in homes adjoining their own in that broad country, where settlers were so much needed to till the lands, and improve the country, and after much deliberation and very much advice from friends and neighbors, they decided to go, and commenced preparations forthwith, selling their home and converting other property into money, buying oxen and wagons, and preparing for the long, long journey, for we had decided that we would go to Oregon, which was full six months journey in our way of travel. I could but contrast the old ways of travel with the new, as I made the journey a short time ago in six days, comfortably seated in a palace car. 
The first day of May, 1860, dawned upon us clear and bright, and with all prepared for starting, we yoked our oxen to our wagons, gathered our cows and young stock together, taking sixteen head and four yoke of oxen, our family dog, clothing, provisions, household utensils, etc. Although tears were in our eyes at the thought of parting with our friends and relatives, still we were hopeful, for we dearly loved each other, stepfather, stepbrothers and sisters all being united and happy, and the thought that in that far land to which we were to go, we should be so fortunate as to live an unbroken family in nice homes, near father and mother, if the Lord so willed it, with not a face missing in our family circle, gave strength to pass through the sorrowful parting. But I shall never forget the tearful faces of my dear old grandparents as they stood at the end of the lane, leading to the road, and with tears streaming down their wrinkled faces bid a last adieu to their youngest child and her family. 
I was then a girl of 13 years, and with a heart untouched by cares, but bitterly did I cry over leaving home, and lonely, most lonely were the first few nights of camping, and feeling that we were going farther and farther from home each day. 
We fell in with three other teams about noon of the first day, that like ourselves, started for Oregon and California. As these families were with us during our entire journey, I will give their names: John Myers, who left his wife and children and went to find a home for them, Michael Myers, a brother; and Edward Prine. With this addition to our company, we felt a little stronger and better satisfied. We soon became accustomed to camp life, and after a little time, really enjoyed it. 
Everything had been planned before starting on our journey, and we had prepared all things for convenience on the road. We took seven milk cows, and had kegs made before starting, and we milked our cows and strained the milk into our kegs, put them into our wagons, and every night the milk was churned by the motion of the wagons into nice butter, which we salted and worked into balls for use. 
We stopped and rested our teams occasionally, and did our washing, and such work as it was possible to do up ahead under the circumstances. 
We kept falling in with emigrant teams, and by the time we reached Ft. Laramie, we had quite a train. 
There are many incidents of our journey which I should like to narrate if time and space would allow. One young man by the name of John Green, who overtook us at Ft. Laramie, while handling his revolver, had the misfortune to get his hand shot, and so badly hurt that he had to go to Ft. Kearney and have it amputated. 
We were much amused by the intelligence and acuteness of the little prairie dogs. Some nights we scarcely slept at all for the barking and yelping of the noisy things, which were alarmed at having strange neighbors and wished to alarm their friends. They had little owls and a kind of dormant rattlesnake in the boroughs with them, all on friendly terms, it seemed. We stopped at Ft. Laramie a few days to rest and shoe our teams, also to wait for teams which we heard were behind us, and like ourselves, bound for Oregon. We fell in with a large California train, and traveled with them until the California trail separated from the Oregon, and then we were left more lonely than before. We had felt the security of traveling with such a large number. While with the California train, when we camped at night we would prepare the ground by cutting down the brush, leveling and sprinkling the ground, and have a good old-fashioned dance. 
It was not much work to make our toilets, for the most of us wore for convenience the costume called bloomers, and did not have many changes. We would also sing songs, tell stories, and amuse ourselves with all the sports of our school days, feeling perfectly safe and secure, for in union was our strength, but how all changed when we parted with our friends of the California train, and traveled westward, knowing that we were every day nearing the dangerous part of our journey. But still we kept on over hills, through forests, across mountains and rivers, until we came to Ft. Hall, where soldiers were stationed. As we deemed it unsafe to go farther alone, we called for troops to go with us. There had one company already gone with a train that was but a few days ahead of us, and we had to wait for the soldiers to make preparation. While waiting, Col. Howe, in command of Ft. Hall, sent in a request to have the women and girls of the train come into their tents and have a dance, which we refused to do, which very much displeased the Col., and at first he refused to send one of his men with us, but upon considering the matter over he dared not refuse, so sent out a small force, with instructions not to go more than half as far with us as those he sent with the train ahead. The soldiers, when they turned back, told us that we were just in the edge of danger, and so we found it, for in a few days, we saw that the Indians meant mischief, as they did not come to our wagons, but would occasionally come in sight at a distance, seemed to be watching us, and acted as though they were not friendly to us. 
One of the soldiers deserted and went with us. He was a bugler, and took his bugle with him, but we did not enjoy music as well as when we felt safer. 
After we had traveled for about one week, perhaps longer, I write this from memory, having kept no diary, and all know that twenty-five years will dim the memory of the past in one’s mind. We camped late, one night. We had not been in camp long when three Indians and two squaws came into camp, and all agreed that the leader among them must be a white man, as his dress and appearance was different from the rest. He had a beard, and you would plainly see that he was painted. He wore an old white wool hat with the top of the crown gone. We could tell him as far as we could see him – he was so different from the rest. They stayed around our wagons until late, when our men told them that they must go to their homes, as we wished to go to bed. They waited to be told a number of times, and finally went away.
We started early next morning, but did not go far before we camped, to find good feed and water, as we had made a dry camp the night before. The men decided to stop part of the day and water and feed the teams and stock, and let the women wash. In a short time, the same Indians came to us, talked a little, and told us they were going off into the mountains to hunt. They said goodbye, and left us. 
We were suspicious of them, and the men consulted together, and thought the safest way would be to kill them, but hardly dared to do so, for fear of its being found out by the Indians. Still we all thought them spies, and I often wish that we had done as our better judgment told us to, and killed them and secreted the bodies, but it seemed it was not to be so. All went well for a week. We saw no Indians to alarm us, and we had almost regained our cheerfulness and were very hopeful that our fears were unfounded, when on reaching Salmon Falls, on Snake River, who should we meet but our supposed white man and the two Indians who were with him before, and a number of other Indians with them. They came to our wagons and pretended to be glad to see us. We bought some dried salmon of them, and hurried away, thankful to be rid of them, but it worried us, as we were followed. We went on for another week with all quiet, and we were another hundred miles nearer our destination, when we reached a small river – I think it was called Brune. There we found a good place for our stock to graze. We always sent a man out with the cattle and horses, for fear they would be stolen, and when our cattle were brought into camp at night there were one or two yokes of oxen missing. The men searched for them, and found their tracks where they had been driven up a canyon by Indians. 
We kept a good watch that night and were not molested. In the morning, Mr. Vanornam, the man who lost the oxen, threw away everything that he could spare, and someone let him have a yoke of oxen to hitch to his wagon, and we all started along, feeling glad to leave what seemed to us to be a dangerous place. We traveled only a short distance before we came to a grave where a man ahead of us had been buried, and the Indians had dug him up, taken his clothing, and then partly buried him, leaving one foot and hand out of the grave. You cannot imagine what a terror struck to our hearts as we gazed on the awful sight and reflected that we too might share the same fate, for on, looking about us, we saw a board on which was written an account of his being killed by the Indians, and warning anyone who came that way to be very cautious. But the warning came too late to do good, for we had not gone more than a mile before we were attacked by them. This was the 9th day of September, 1860. As we came up a hill and turned towards Snake River again, we came in full sight of the Indians, who were singing their war songs, and their shrill war whoop I can never forget. It was too terrible to even attempt to describe, but suffice to say that although so many years have elapsed since that awful, awful scene, I can never hear a shrill yell without thinking with much the feelings that I experienced as that terrible noise reached our ears. 
We saw at a glance what we must do, and corralled our wagons as quickly as possible. There were only nine wagons in the train, but we had sixteen men and boys capable of bearing arms, and were well armed. There were also five women, and twenty-one children between the ages of one and fourteen years. 
Perhaps it might be of interest to tell you of the families of the train. Elijah Utter and wife, with their ten children, Mr. and Mrs. Myers, with five children, Mr. and Mrs. Chase, with three children, Mr. and Mrs. Vanornam, and five children. 
After a short time, the chief rode up and down the road, waving a white cloth, and motioning for us to go on at noon. Two or three of the Indians came up close to us and motioned that they wished to talk with us. Some of our men went out and met them, and they said they would not hurt us, but that they were only hungry, and that we were to go on after noon, but I can tell you that dinner time did not find us with our accustomed appetites that day. 
Shortly after noon we started, but did not go by the road as they expected us to do, but kept up the hill from them, and the last wagon had hardly started before they commenced their terrible war songs and dancing again, and coming toward us all the time. We corralled our wagons as soon as possible, but before we could get the last one in place, the man who was driving was shot dead. His name was Lewis Larson, from Iowa. Shortly after two more were killed, Mr. Utley and Mr. Kithual. We fought them all that afternoon all of that long, awful night, picking them off as often as we could get a chance. We had no chance to get away under cover of night, as they were watchful, and if they head the least noise would commence whooping and shooting at us. We talked it over, and made up our minds that we were all to die, but thought we would try leaving all the wagons but one for each family, and take some provisions, leave all our stock and other property, and see if they would not let us go our way. There were with us three discharged soldiers from Fort Hall, and the deserter before mentioned. They were mounted on horse and were to go ahead with arms and clear the way for us to follow with our wagons. But instead of doing so, the discharged soldiers put spurs to the horses, which belonged to Mr. Vanornam, and galloped off for dear life, and left us to our fate. The deserter stayed as long as he could and stand any chance to save himself, and then taking with him the Reath brothers, Joseph and Jacob, they left, taking one horse with them, which belonged to the deserter. In the horrible tumult of the fight we did not see them go, and did not know but they were killed. 
The Indians now seemed to redouble their frenzy, and showered upon us a continual fire, until it seemed impossible for one to escape. The first one who fell there was John Myers, who it will be remembered left his family at home, either at Hebron, Ill., or Geneva, Wisconsin. 
As Joseph Myers was helping my oldest step-sister, Mary E. Utter, from the wagon, a ball passed through his side and entered her breast. Mary only lived a few minutes. The next one to go was my stepfather, who had his baby one year old that day, in his arms. As I stepped up and took her from him, so he could better use his gun, as I did so, I kissed him and turned to mother, who was bending over my dying step-sister, Mary, when father was shot in the breast and fell. He got up, but had hardly got up when he fell close to his daughter, Mary, and soon died. We gave up then. It seemed as though our whole dependence had been taken from us, and leaving our wagons, we started, every person for themselves. I turned to my poor mother who was standing by the dead bodies of husband and children, and begged her to go with us, but she said no, there was no use in trying that; we were all to be killed, and that she could not leave father, and when I found that I could not persuade her to go, I took one last lingering look at her dear face, and taking my poor baby sister in my arms, and telling four of the little brothers and sisters to follow me, I started, I knew not whither, but with the one hope of getting away from the wretches who seemed to thirst for the blood of every one of us. I turned and motioned to my mother, who still stood by the wagon where I left her, with two of my step-sisters and little step-brother. She shook her head, but the oldest step-sister started to come to me, and they shot her down. I turned and ran a little way and looked back, and they al had been shot down, and were lying with the rest of the dead. I felt then that all that I held dear on earth was dependent upon my feeble care, and child as I was, I nerved myself for what that terrible struggle for life which I could see was before me. 
Will the reader of this narrative please to pause a moment and reflect upon my situation. A child of barely thirteen years, and slender in build and constitution, taking a nursing babe of one year and four other children, all younger than herself, and fleeing for life, without provisions and barely clothing enough to cover us, into the pathless wilderness, or what is worse yet, across the barren plains of the west. It was now the 10th of September, and getting dark, the second day after the attack. Others also fled, and we got together as much as possible and made for the river, for we were very thirsty, and we had had but little water through the fight, for we did not fill our kegs as usual that morning, as we knew we should travel along the river. After we got a drink of water, we rested a little while, if it could be called resting, with the awful fear in our minds that we should be followed and killed. We decided upon the course that we would keep away from the road and travel in single file, and as near as possible cover our tracks by having a man step in each track. 
We traveled by night and hid in the willows which grew along the river by day. We traveled only a short distance that night, and we could see the fire from our burning wagons and such goods as they could not well carry away, and before morning we hid in the willows on the river bank, and lay there all day. We saw some of the Indians going past us driving off some of our cattle, for it seemed that they divided up into small bands and dividing their spoil, each one went his way. While they were passing, I held my hand over the mouth of my baby sister, who, frightened perhaps by the scared faces around her, commenced crying. Poor little sister, how my heart did ache for her. Words cannot describe my agony as I looked on the faces of my little brothers and sisters, poor orphans now, and heard them cry piteously for father and mother, and if possible worse yet, cry for bread when I had none to give them. God grant that none of the readers of this true story may ever realize from experience the awful bitterness of the cup which I was forced to drink to the very dregs. 
Just about dark of that day, three or four Indians went past us, shooting off their guns and whooping and yelling. We lay there very quiet until after dark, then got up and traveled as fast as possible. When tired out, we would lie down and sleep a short time, then get up and travel along. 
The Indians followed us four days, coming onto us about the same hour each night. We supposed they tracked us all day. The fourth night, they did not come until later. We had camped under a hill on the creek, and above us were rocks, and they went up above us and rolled rocks down, trying to roll them onto us. They came close, but we were so far under that they did not strike us. We started as soon as it was dark enough for us to travel with safety, and kept on all night, feeling sure that we would be safer elsewhere. One night, brother Christopher was missing when we camped. You will remember that we traveled by moonlight and starlight, and we could not guess what had become of him, and one of the men went back and found that he had taken the road and gone on, instead of turning out where we did to camp. He found his tracks, but we did not see him until the next day, when we met him coming back to us. 
You will perhaps wonder what we could get to eat. Well, we got so hungry during the third night’s travel that we killed our faithful family dog, that had shared our hardships through all that long journey. We also killed Mr. Vanornam’s, roasted and ate some of the meat, and carried the rest along for future use. 
We kept on our journey through the wilderness until we came to the Oyhee River, near where old Fort Boise used to stand, and all being tired out with travel and weak with hunger, we camped there. 
We had found a cow the day before, which had strayed away from the train ahead of us, and was trying to get back home. She was very poor, but we shot her, the first shot which had been fired since we left the wagons. We roasted her and carried the meat over to the Oyhee. 
We had traveled more than 100 miles, although it would not have been much over 80 by the road, since leaving the wagons, but so far all were alive, although our sufferings were terrible, both from hunger and exposure. It was getting cold weather, and we were without extra clothing during nights, and commenced to suffer from the cold. Our shoes were worn off, and we were barefoot, or nearly so, and at nights, we would bury our poor bruised feet in the sand to keep them warm. We set to work and built us camps our of the boughs and brush when we could find any along the river, for we could see little probability of getting away from there, and tried to make things as comfortable as possible. 
Mr. Myers had escaped so far with his whole family, and had it not been for him I think we should have traveled along a little way each day toward the Fort, which was to us the haven of safety, but he begged us so piteously for us not to leave him, as he was not able to travel, that we could not go without him. 
When we had been in camp some time, my brother Christopher was down by the river fishing one day, when an Indian came to him and seemed much surprised at seeing him, and wanted him to go home to his camp with him, but Christy told him that he had a camp of his own and must go to that. He went away, and Christy came home and told us. In about an hour, the same Indian came back and four more with him, and brought us one fish, but when they saw how many there were of us, they went back and brought some more fish for us, and urged us to go to their camp with them, but we would not go. We had a great horror of being taken captive by them. We traded some of our clothes with them for fish, and they wanted Christy to go home with them, and he told us that he would go with them, as he was afraid that if none of us went, they would not like it, and might do us harm. He was a brave little fellow, and although only eleven years of age, had before started with a man by the name of Goodsel to see if they could not reach the fort and bring us help, and after getting quite a long way from us, they met the deserted soldier and the Reath boys, who got away, it will be remembered, at the time of the massacre, taking one horse among them, and in trying to reach the fort they had taken the wrong road, and brother and Mr. Goodsel met them coming back to take the right trail. When they heard that we were starving, they killed their horse and roasted it, and started my brother back to us with all he could carry, and he, poor boy, knowing how great was our need, loaded himself so heavy that he had to throw pieces away as it became so heavy that he could not carry it. The man Goodsel went on with them, traveling with all speed to reach the fort and send help to us. 
But to return to my subject, Christy said that if the Indians did not let him come back, that he could run away the next summer and get in with some emigrant train and reach us if we ever got through, which looked very doubtful. The Indians took a dislike to the children of Mr. Vanornam, as they were so hungry that they snatched the fish from them and ate it greedily. 
They went back to camp taking Christy with them, and said they would be back in three days and bring him with them. After they went away, we talked it over, and thought that when they came back, they would surely kill us, and Mr. Vanornam and wife, with two sons and three daughters, Mr. Gleason, and Charles and Henry Utter, my step-brothers, started along to try and reach Fort Walla Walla. 
At the end of three days, the Indians came back as they had agreed to, and brought Christy with them, and they brought fish again. Mr. Chase ate so much of it that he was taken with the hiccough and died. We buried him, but the Indians dug him up, took his clothes, and buried him again. My poor sister Libbie, nine years old, used to help me gather buffalo chips for fuel, and rosebuds, pusley, and other things to eat. She and I went to gather fuel as usual one morning, and she was tugging along with all she could carry and fell behind. I carried mine into camp and went back to meet her. I called her by name and she made no answer. Soon I found her, and I said, “Libbie, why did you not answer?” She said, “I could not talk, I felt too bad,” and before night, she was dead. Soon the Indians came again, bringing Christy with them. I did not see him this time, as I was away after fuel. Mr. Myers asked him where they camped. Christy asked why he wished to know, and he said, “because when the soldiers come, we want to go and get you.” The Indians, as soon as they heard the word “soldiers” spoken, said it over to each other and talked among themselves and went away taking Christy with them again. I came back with my fuel, and when on my way, quite a ways from camp, I heard a frightful noise. It seemed to me more like dogs fighting than anything else I ever heard. I was scared, and made haste into camp, and they told me Christy had been there and gone back again. We waited with as much anxiety as we could feel about anything until the three days were passed, and the Indians did not come back, and we felt afraid of them, and we began to talk about trying to start along, but I could not go without finding something of the fate of Christy. We waited a few days and then I went over to Sanek River, about two miles, and I could see their camps, but could not see any living thing around them. I called “Christy”, loud and long, but the echo of my own voice was all the answer I could hear. 
I went back to the camp, feeling certain something had happened to the boy. The next day, Mr. Myers took the trail which went from our camp to theirs, and had not gone far when he found where the wolves had dragged something along, and soon he found some of his hair, and then he knew that my brother had been killed by the Indians, and his body torn to pieces by the wolves. He came back to camp and told us, and words cannot describe my feelings as I heard of his horrible fate. I knew then that the noise which I heard that day was my poor brave Christy, whom I loved so well. I thought I had passed through all the suffering which I could endure, and God knows how I longed to lie down and die and be at rest, but it was not to be so, nor had I drained the cup to the dregs yet. Starvation was making sad inroads on our little band, and none but those who have endured the awful pangs of starvation, have even a faint idea of such horrible sufferings and death. We became almost frantic. Food we must have, but how should we get it?
Then an idea took possession of our minds which we could not even mention to each other, so horrid, so revolting to even think of, but the awful madness of hunger was upon us, and we cooked and ate the bodies of each of the poor children, first sister Libbie, then Mr. Chase’s little boys, and then my darling baby sister, whom I had carried in my arms through all that long dreary journey and slept with hugged to my heart, as though if possible, I would shield her from all danger. She, too, had to leave me. In vain had I saved the choicest morsel of everything for her, chewed fish and fed it to her, boiled pusley which we found on Snake River, and fed her the water, and everything which I could plan had been fed to keep her alive. 
Mrs. Myers and Mrs. Chase each had babies about her age, but neither could spare a share of nature’s food for our poor little motherless one, for fear of robbing her own. For over forty days I had carried her, but had to give her up at last, and I was left alone. All who had depended upon me had been taken away except the two stepbrothers, who had gone on, and from whom we had heard nothing. We also dug up the body of Mr. Chase, intending to eat that, but thank God, relief came. The first one to reach Fort Walla Walla was one of the discharged soldiers, who it will be remembered, ran way with Mr. Vanornam’s horses from the wagons at the time of the massacre. They told so many lies, on getting to the fort, that they did not believe that there was any train in trouble. He got in a number of days before the Reath brothers, Mr. Goodsel and the deserted soldier reached it. When they reached the fort, which was between eighty and a hundred miles from us, one of the Reath boys came bck with two companions of soldiers, one of dragoons and one of infantry. They started back immediately, and traveled along without resting day or night. 
Upon nearing us they found a sad sight. The company who had gone on ahead when the Indians took brother Christy away, which you will remember consisted of Mr. and Mrs. Vanornam, three daughters and two sons, Samuel Gleason, and Charles and Henry Utter, the Indians had followed, and killed Mr. and Mrs. Vanornam, their son Mark, Samuel Gleason, and the last of our family except myself, Charles and Henry Utter. Their bodies lay unburied, showing marks of torture too devilish for any human beings to inflict except Indians. Let those who have never suffered as I have, pity the noble red man of the forest. My pity all goes out for their poor, unfortunate victims, and I can never look upon one of our poor, degraded, harmless Winnebagoes, without such feeling as I do not like to entertain towards any of God’s created beings, and I almost doubt if they are a part of our great Maker’s work. 
Mrs. Vanornam had evidently been tortured too terribly to mention. Her ankles were tied with strong ropes when found, and she had been scalped. Three of the Vanornam girls and one by had been carried away by the Indians. The next year we heard, by some emigrant train, something of them. The oldest girl, 13 years old, was killed the next year. In attempting to get away she killed two squaws, and the Indians then killed her. The boy was brought by an emigrant train, and reached his uncle in Oregon. The Indians were seen leading the two little girls around with collars around their necks, and chains fastened to them to lead them by. A thousand pities that they had not all been killed with their parents. I have that one consolation, that in all my troubles, none of my folks were taken captive by them. 
The dragoons commenced to bury the dead, who it was very evident had been dead but a short time, but the Reath boy begged of them not to stop there for the night, as it was getting late in the afternoon, but to push on, for he told them there were certain more somewhere, and it was possible they might find them alive. So the infantry traveled all night without resting. I may say here that there is no doubt but we owed our lives to that night’s work, those brave, tender-hearted men, for we were sure that the Indians were on their way to kill us when scared away by the reproach of soldiers. 
About 10 o’clock in the morning, we saw signal fires off a few miles from our camp, and we knew that either they were coming to kill us, or help was close at hand, and strange as it may seem to my readers, my heart was so benumbed by my terrible sufferings that I hardly cared which it was. I was alone in the world, and had suffered enough within the last few months to change me from a light-hearted child to a broken-hearted woman, and my wish was that I might lie down and die, and join my kindred in a world free from cares and troubles like those I had passed through. I was out after fuel as usual, when I saw the soldiers coming, but was too weak to feel much joy at seeing them. They rode up to me, and a few dismounted, and coming to me, asked if I did not want something to eat. I answered that I did not care. I shall never forget the pitying look bent on me by those strong men. Tears stood in every eye as one of the officers gave me part of a biscuit. I ate that, but did not care for more, but in a few days I was hungry enough to eat anything. I could not have lived many days longer if help had not reached us. 
The soldiers commenced at once, making preparations for return to the fort. They took us about three miles from our camp the next day after their arrival, and went into camp there, and waited for us to get ready. They told us to make us some clothing before starting. We made some skirts out blankets which they gave us, and we wore some of their underclothes, and their short blue coats, which were comfortable, for it was getting to be cold days and nights, as it was now the 25th or 26th of October. I cannot speak half well enough of the soldiers to express their kind and gentlemanly treatment of us, and I shall carry through life the recollection not only of the kindness but even of the features of those large-hearted soldiers and I almost think I should recognize any of them, should I ever see them. They made saddlebags, hung them across their saddles, and put a child in each one; made a litter for those who were too feeble to ride on horseback, or rather on mules, for they were mounted on mules. Mrs. Chase and myself changed, and each rode a part of the time on a litter. She got thrown off and hurt, and then I gave up my place on the litter to her. After traveling a few days, the government wagons sent to our relief from Walla Walla met us. Then we had clothes to keep us warm, and an easy wagon to ride in. 
There was one family which I cannot forbear to make special mention of, and that is the family of Mr. Myers. The reader will recollect that I spoke of them in the beginning of this narrative. There were seven in the family, father, mother, and five children, as strange as it may seem, every one of them were spared, and reached the fort in safety. Mr. Myers, in answer to the question asked him how they all happened to get through, when all other families were entirely annihilated, answered, “It was prayer saved my family,” but I can say that my idea is that extreme selfishness had more to do with their being saved than prayer. The hardship of gathering fuel and subsistence were not shared by Mr. Myers’ family. He said they were not able. Even the task of washing for their baby was allotted to me, and often when we would go out after pusley, rosebud and other such vegetation as we could find, which we could eat, and leave Mr. Myers praying, I suppose in a selfish way, for his own family, in camp, instead of helping in our hardships. On our return, the other children would cry and beg for something to eat, and say the Myers family had been eating fish, or whatever we had stored away for rations, for we had to allow one just so much at a meal. Perhaps the good Lord, who is the searcher of all hearts, heeded his selfish prayers, but I would quicker believe that shirking duty and stealing from others was what saved the Myer family. 
Now, patient reader, my story draws to a close, and I think every one of you will rejoice with me that the modes of travel of the olden days have given place to the strong iron horse and the comfortable palace car of today.



Emeline’s cousin, who’s own father Edward Trimble, was attacked and killed on the Oregon Trail in 1846 came to get her. She then went to live with the only living relatives she knew, her uncle Alexander Trimble. She would attend a Christian College for 2 terms and in 1863 would marry the first of 3 husbands, John Whitman. They went to live with an uncle of Emeline’s mother, the Rev Aaron Payne who had been a widower for around 15 yrs. In 1870 they sold their land they had bought and moved to Eastern Oregon then on to Washington Territory where in 1878 they built and ran stables and an Inn. I have read some reports that they either adopted or fostered several of John’s nephew’s, but I’ve never seen it talked about in anything Emeline wrote herself. In some accounts I’ve seen that her and John divorced in 1881 after the death of one of their foster kids, but other reports say they were together until he was killed in a tragic train accident. We do know she then moved back to Wisconsin where she would marry a Melvin Fuller in 1886. Mr Fuller was a widower with 7 kids at home. It is said she had problems with the older children and after 4 years they separated. In 1901 she would marry an Andrew Calhoun and he passed in 1911. Sadly Emeline never had any children of her own and at some point she moved to Florida. She died in the Seminole County Home where she had been a resident for 10 yrs. She is buried in the Lakeview Cemetery, but has no marker. In her lifetime she wrote several pieces and book. Since that time numerous articles and books on this incident have been written calling it one of the worst massacres on the Oregon Trail.

William & Lucinda (Evans) Morgan — Emeline’s cousin
George & Lizzie (Mitchell) Morgan
Art & Alice (Pugh) Morgan
Richard & Linda (Arnold) Morgan
Henry & Me